Let's see if we can finish the beginning...that is Genesis
I skipped a little (understatement) incident in the conclusion of my last post. At some point after Rachel's death, Reuben (probably in his early 20s at this point) sleeps with Bilhah (Rachel's handmaid/Israel's concubine). The natural modern day reaction is of course disgust at the idea of sleeping with your father's wife, which still applies here, but there is even more going on. Culturally speaking, this act it seems amounted to an attempted usurpation of his father's place. But that is recorded here is that "Israel heard about it." There's no further commentary. It's reminiscent of his apparent stoicism surrounding the rape of Dinah. But rest assured, these two events will not be forgotten.
So here proto-Israel is in the land of promise. Jacob has 12 sons. It's the first glimpse of the countless children Abraham had been promised. Best guess is there's a 14 year age gap between the oldest (Reuben) and the youngest (Benjamin). It could be a year or two more. It's not entirely clear how long it took Israel to leave Laban to the point where Rachel dies giving birth to Benjamin.
To the sons, it is abundantly obvious who the favorite is, and reading between the lines, Joseph knows it too. The eldest son of the favorite wife is of course the one Israel loves best. The story is among the most well known in the Bible.
When Joseph is 17, Israel sends him out to check on his brothers as they are tending the herds. Joseph comes back and gives his father a "bad report." Israel elevates Joseph further by gifting him a many-colored coat. This really is in elaborate gift for this time period. Most people only had one or two sets of clothing and dyed cloth was a luxury for royalty. Israel might as well have given Joseph a Rolls-Royce while his brother's were still driving around in granddad's old jalopy. I don't think the brother's missed the significance.
Joseph has two dreams. In one he dreams that he and his family are gathering grain, and the sheaves stand up and the sheaves his brothers had collected bow down to his sheaf. In the second dream, the sun, moon, and 11 stars bow down to him. The Bible doesn't let us see into Joseph's mind here, but it's hard to imagine what possessed him to think it was a good idea to tell his brothers and his father about these dreams. Even Israel is offended, believing that Joseph expects "I and your mother and your brothers" to bow down to him.
Sidebar: we're not explicitly told these dreams are prophetic, but the Bible isn't exactly in the habit of including meaningless dreams. The most interesting thing to me here is the second dream and specifically the "moon" in the second dream. We're given Israel's interpretation that it's Joseph's mother. The problem is Rachel (i.e. Joseph's mom) is dead (or at least her death is recorded two chapters earlier). This led me down a rabbit trail of research, and I don't have a definitive answers. But this is what I've found:
- Some argue that Joseph's mother here is Leah because she is the first wife and only free wife remaining (Zilpah and Bilhah are concubines). The thinking goes that Leah would have responsibility for Joseph and Benjamin as a sort of "head wife"
- Other's make a similar argument for Bilhah to be Joseph and Benjamin's surrogate mother. She was Rachel's handmaid so the thinking goes that the boys would default to her care
- Another proposed option is that Rachel was not yet dead. It's not clear what the age gap was between Joseph and Benjamin based on the text, but the argument goes that the story telling of Genesis 35-37 isn't necessarily chronological. Genesis 35 is seen as a summary of Israel's life up to and including Rachel's death, but chapter 37 is a switch of perspective to covering Joseph's life. The question this argument has to answer is what we are to make of the 11 stars if Benjamin isn't born yet.
- It's also been proposed that Jacob's interpretation of the dream isn't 100% accurate. Later on, when Joseph interprets other dreams, it always comes with a disclaimer that the interpretation is from the LORD. We aren't given this sort of statement here. So if Jacob's take is inaccurate, what is the interpretation? In this scenario, one possibility is that the sun and moon are representative of Egypt and the stars of the sons of Israel.
- The last explanation of which I am aware, and the one I think I lean towards: we don't need to explain it because it's not about Joseph's literal mother literally bowing down to him...literally. Rachel is dead, but she'll always be Joseph's mother. Jacob is offended because Joseph sees himself as greater than his ancestors, which is contrary to their ideas about the supremacy of those who came before.